How many times have you heard that or even quoted that statement? Well on most counts that's a true statement. I've said it a lot of the years since being married. For the most part husbands if you can make you wife happy she in turn will do the same for you. However, in the same token wives it's a 50/50 situation it's not our husband's job to make us happy 100% of the time or your job to make your husband happy 100% of the time. Happiness has to be found within one's self and when that is accomplished you're able to in return make others happy effortlessly.
What I have come to realize is that if I'm not happy in my current situation what is it that I need to do to change that. We have to be accountable for our own happiness and not rest it on someone else's shoulders. Do a self examination of yourself to get to the root of what's causing you to be unhappy and allowing you to reflect that all around you. We have the power to change our environment by our thoughts which lead to action. However that all begins with tracking back to the source ad then finding the solution.
*Get connected to the vine which will guide you to self evaluation and allow you to really look in the mirror and see yourself. *Be open to what you discover and willing to take necessary steps to produce change. *Remember you are never alone and keep your ears tuned to heaven to hear what the Father is speaking. *Speak positive things in your life and you will begin to see those things manifest. *Be what you want to attract and you will soon see the happiness all around you.
I speak from experience and it's going to forever be a process it's not a transformation that will happen over night but with continued practice you will become a expert at making yourself happy. I've learned to take it one day at a time and appreciate that God loved me enough to give me a husband that's willing to take the journey with me. Also that neither of us are perfect, but if everyday we strive to be our very best with one another that is what will be reflected the best we have to offer. Our happiness depends on us as individuals and when we are happy with ourselves we bring that to our marriage and produce a fulfilling union.
Kiss every chance you get. Hug him like you mean it! Having a goal helps us make choices that free us. What you do EVERY DAY matters more than what you do ONCE IN A WHILE.
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